Allegra's Trans Experience
Here to share my story.
recent posts
- A Trans Lesbian’s Relationship with Happy Endings
- My Reflections on 2025
- Why I Love Friendship As Much As Romance, and Why We Need It
- Why “I Don’t Care That You’re Trans” Isn’t Enough: How to Properly Love and Welcome the Trans People In Your Lives
- When Two LGBTQ+ Identities Collide: Trans Woman and Lesbian Intersectionality
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For me, happy endings aren’t just about romance. I don’t believe that there’s one person out there who will completely solve all my problems and make me completely happy forever. Most women are sold this narrative growing up- that their entire worth as a human being depends on a man’s approval. Hundreds of thousands of…
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(TW: transphobia) Just like it was for most of the trans community, 2025 was a tough year for me. At the beginning, I was reeling from a breakup with someone I had been with for two years, and thought was the one. I gave her so many chances to grow with me and love the…
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Romance may be exciting. But friendship is just as loving and meaningful, if you do it right. When I was in college, as soon as things opened up and more and more people got vaccinated against COVID, I started wearing a pin saying “Free Hugs (if you’re vaccinated).” I would always offer hugs to anyone…
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Imagine you’re hanging out with your best friend, or your child. You’re getting into a deep conversation, or mentioning something important to you or them, and then they come out and tell you they’re trans. They ask you to use new pronouns for them, and to call them by a new name. You care about…
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I’m not just a trans woman. I’m a lesbian too. My journey to discovering my gender and sexuality, and the relationship between the two, has been anything but linear. When I first started questioning my sexuality, I thought I might be demisexual since I only seemed to catch feelings for people after making friends with…
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On April 15, 2023, I put on a crop top for the very first time. I spent years walking past the women’s section of clothing stores, eyeing the various tops, short shorts, skirts, bras and dresses, wondering how I would look wearing them. But I was so afraid to try one on. I was worried…
Allegra's Trans Experience 